I tried to write about what real love likes couple times. But I don't know how to make it sound...real, sound normal, not crazy, not dreaming dreamy and make people believe that it will happen to them eventually if they do it right.
Well it's different to explain about love to one who have found it and one who haven't found it yet.
The one who have found love, they understand immediately. No need more explanation. But one who haven't found it, they will never really understand till the day they've found it. They'll be curious and can't believe it.
When I was younger. I was looking for same type of guy in my imagination that I think they're good for me. I tried to make them right for me. With all the good reasons, they could be the one! I felt like they were but I couldn't imagine myself stay with any guys forever. No one! I couldn't imagine to have a baby or getting marry because I know some days I'll get bored. I'll be done with their behavior. I know someday they wouldn't put up with me and leave me. In my mind I felt something wasn't quite right. Something scared me and those things kept me protecting myself so I won't get hurt.
One day, I met my husband. He wasn't the guy I was picture about. Our date was a disaster (Disaster!) and I didn't want to see him again. His status was lower than I wanted. He wasn't my type absolutely (oh and I wasn't his type either). But destiny brought him back to me again and again. I was lonely and seem like only this guy stick with me at the moment. We started to know each other better. He still wasn't the guy I like. But he has one great thing that very important in relationship. He makes me feel Loved. He makes me feel likes no matter what happen he will stand by me. He will take care of me as best as he can. He will loves me no matter how bad I am. I have no doubt about that. His soul touches my heart. I know this time was going to be different. This time is real. I didn't try to make it real but it's just real.
So I give him my best. I don't scare to invest all of my energy with him. I'm very confident he will not hurt me.
We fight a lot in our first year together but mostly we fight because we want to stay with each other better. We want to make it work. I was sad but not a time I feel like he doesn't love me. We have a great thing together and whatever it takes. This is worthy.
That's the thing. When you feel so secure to be with someone, no matter what happens you know it will passes. You know what you have together is more than anything and both of you try your best to safe your relationship forever because you have LOVE as a base of your relationship. And LOVE is the strongest protecting wall that will protect your relationship to last forever.
Well it's different to explain about love to one who have found it and one who haven't found it yet.
The one who have found love, they understand immediately. No need more explanation. But one who haven't found it, they will never really understand till the day they've found it. They'll be curious and can't believe it.
When I was younger. I was looking for same type of guy in my imagination that I think they're good for me. I tried to make them right for me. With all the good reasons, they could be the one! I felt like they were but I couldn't imagine myself stay with any guys forever. No one! I couldn't imagine to have a baby or getting marry because I know some days I'll get bored. I'll be done with their behavior. I know someday they wouldn't put up with me and leave me. In my mind I felt something wasn't quite right. Something scared me and those things kept me protecting myself so I won't get hurt.
One day, I met my husband. He wasn't the guy I was picture about. Our date was a disaster (Disaster!) and I didn't want to see him again. His status was lower than I wanted. He wasn't my type absolutely (oh and I wasn't his type either). But destiny brought him back to me again and again. I was lonely and seem like only this guy stick with me at the moment. We started to know each other better. He still wasn't the guy I like. But he has one great thing that very important in relationship. He makes me feel Loved. He makes me feel likes no matter what happen he will stand by me. He will take care of me as best as he can. He will loves me no matter how bad I am. I have no doubt about that. His soul touches my heart. I know this time was going to be different. This time is real. I didn't try to make it real but it's just real.
So I give him my best. I don't scare to invest all of my energy with him. I'm very confident he will not hurt me.
We fight a lot in our first year together but mostly we fight because we want to stay with each other better. We want to make it work. I was sad but not a time I feel like he doesn't love me. We have a great thing together and whatever it takes. This is worthy.
That's the thing. When you feel so secure to be with someone, no matter what happens you know it will passes. You know what you have together is more than anything and both of you try your best to safe your relationship forever because you have LOVE as a base of your relationship. And LOVE is the strongest protecting wall that will protect your relationship to last forever.
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